Anonymous asked: I'm the one that wrote about the communicating problem. Ever since I was a kid I remember thinking that no one loved me. I was a kid and thinking that no one loved me. How could I possibly have gotten that? I have no idea how but in a way I can just remember that I felt like no one believed in me. Family and others would tell me to stop being so shy. Yeah, i was shy and I guess I didn't notice that it was wrong to be that way. I just remember being told what I did wrong all the time.

Hey lovely. I can relate to what it feels like to be shy or anxious and to feel like you never meet the standards of other. However that is not the case. Every time you think you are not good enough or not loved tell yourself “I am worthy of love from myself and others.”

This is something important that I tell myself all the time it helps me realize that I don’t deserve to be put down by anyone especially myself. I am better than the negative talk and I am in control of myself.

Please feel free to come off anon and talk to me. I would love to hear from you I can keep our chats private.

Stay strong.